Sunday, November 21, 2010

Weddings




This fall I was lucky enough to go to some really amazing weddings. It all started when my best friend Joanne got engaged and asked me to be her maid of honor. I had taken a job in the Med and wasnt sure how I was going to swing it, but I would. for sure. I almost missed Drake's wedding last year and that was NOT Going to happen again. As it turned out it wasnt an issue at all (see previous blog). Before I left Europe I went to Emma Jane's wedding in London.Emma Jane is Ben's step sister and she married Simon. They live in a beautiful house in Chelsea and drive a range rover and all of that so I knew this wedding was going to be top notch. I was about to leave for Morocco when Ben informed me that this was a hat wedding and did I have a hat. Did I have a hat?? Who, who is backpacking none the less, has a hat lying around? Carol, Emma Jane's mother, was kind enough to bring one down from Wales withthe 3 other hats she was bringing (and she has more than that at home!!). And a good thing too, I would have looked quite silly not having one, as EVERYONE had something on their head!



-note: you can also wear a fascinator which is like a really fancy headband. I would have opted for this, had I known. And I dont know if theyre called fascinators because they fasten or because theyre fascinating.
Anyways. The day started out at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel, next to Hyde park. I know because from their top floor balcony you could see the whole thing! The ceremony was beautiful and featured a 15 piece Welsh choir who rang out "all you need is love" by the beatles, on their way out of the church. Afterwards we rode the bus to the hotel reception. Not just any bus, a london bus and a classic one at that! fantastic way to travel 6 blocks!
The reception was fantastic, lots of hat exchanging went on with the boys' top hats, and it was a great party for Emma Jane and Simon.

From London Ben and I flew to NH for Joanne's wedding. The week leading up to the wedding deserves it's own blog so stay tuned. As for Joanne and Mike, What a show! They rented Dexter's Inn in Sunapee which has everything you need for a great party in the mountains. A view of the foliage and ski resort, a huge backyard complete with lawn games and a party barn for after hours!
The girls and I got ready on the day of with Joanne. The sky cleared and the ceremony was beautiful. I cant think of words to say about it but Joanne has scrapbooked the whole thing, so take a look. IT was an amazing weekend and Im so happy for her and mike.

The next weekend I got to go to my cousin Denise's wedding. I was very excited to see my whole family, it had been awhile since we were all together. And very excited to see Denise get married. My aunt Jeanne was so cute! They all looked so happy!
It was a fall wedding in New England and we were on the coast in Maine so what a surprise when it was gray and windy! It didnt rain though, and the ceremony was outside over looking the sea. They kept it short and beautiful. Kate's husband Jeff lead the ceremony and he is getting pretty good at it! Better than a lot of priests Ive seen!
It was a fun dinner and great to see my sisters all at the same table.

The last one for awhile was Jillian's wedding to Nik. I was very worried I wouldnt make it to this one, I had to sail a boat to st Maarten to get on a plane to fly back! We skirted hurricane Tomas and made it down in record time! Just when I thought I was home free I got to the st maarten airport and the power was out! Noone was moving and when they finally did they checked us in by hand! I am keeping my hand written boarding pass for ever! No worries, we only left about an hour late and I had a connection to make in Charlotte. US air did a great job, somehow, and I made it all the way to Boston just about on time! Lucky for me I have some very good friends that still live in boston and Kzak was going to pick me up from the airport. I was very excited to have a sleepover and be "city girls" for the weekend. As I waited for Kzaks Subaru to pull up I saw a silver Audi and thought "wouldnt it be great if Alex AND kzak picked me up?" And THEY DID! We went out for dinner in CHarlestown at a hookah bar. (theres a hookah bar in charlestown, you say? yes there is, its great). From there we made our way to Kzaks temporary home in Malden. Lovely town. We woke up on Saturday VERY EXCITED! We made plans to meet Nell and Kristin for coffee at K's favorite coffee shop. JKLMN was going to be in the same city that day!!! We went back to Brians to get ready and drove to Dorchester to the church. The ceremony was beautiful and the reunion was fantastic! As we walked out of the church we saw 4 TV cameras and thought "Wow, who is this guy shes marrying!?" Apparently the limo the girls were in got HIJACKED! right before they walked into the church! AMAZING! Everyone was ok and the limo was found in Southie later.
Kzak, Dan and I threw the pre party in our hotel room and had a happy little UNH reunion of sailors! Amy, Gus, Michelle, the works! as the night went on things got better and better and we even got to speak to Jill! It was just awesome to be together again. Dancing and singing like we were in a basement somewhere in Durham. Thanks to great friends it was like no time had passed.
So I used to begrudge weddings but after this fall I look forward to them. What a great party, and people dont throw enough parties. It used to be a sort of competition in college, and we should continue the trend. Nothing is better than getting together with some great friends and having a good time.
So if youre getting married I wanna come. But let me know. soon. I have a lot of planning and traveling to do with these things!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Running around England




Wow. It has been awhile!
well to catch you up on the last two years....
Just kidding. I will highlight the highlights though.
Antigua last winter was great. Ben and I had a sweet little cottage and day jobs. It was surreal! After 5 months of "real life" we headed off in separate directions, me to Valencia, Spain, and him back to England. I had a mate job on Crackerjack, an 82' swan that did week charters in Croatia and Montenegro. EVERYONE SHOULD GO THERE. and soon, its going to become one of those places in 10 years. Youll have to check out my facebook albums.

After only a few months out there I got fired, (the theme of the year) and headed to
Cowes for Cowes week. Cowes week is the biggest event in sailing and it is massive! I sailed in a big one design fleet called X-one designs that are fantastic little wooden boats that are very high performance and finely tuned. We raced in a fleet of 88 and ended up 25th, not bad for some first timers! The best part of the week was being Temporary Members for the Royal Yacht Squadron. If races were delayed we'd go have some tea with the ladies who lunch on the lawn. If we finished well we'd sip some champagne with some very proper English gents. It was a hoot. We had 8 full days of racing and I was exhausted by the end but it was fantastic to be sailing in a fleet again with some really solid sailors.
The beer tents were plentiful and may have had something to do with me losing my voice mid week. Trying to communicate tactics by gesturing with two hands that are locked on the sheet is a very interesting task.
Cowes week finished with some awesome fireworks in a very hazy sky. It rained all day! All Id heard about were how good the fireworks were at the end of the week and they were rumors of them canceling! they didnt and we all had a blast! (get it, blast, fireworks, ha.)

All to quickly the racing finished and I was stuck in Europe for a month. "What should I do?" I thought. And answered "buy a tent, rent a car and run road races while exploring England." and I did. I started with training in cowes for the 1/2 marathon that coming sunday. Cowes is and island and like most islands every road goes up hill. (or downhill depending on if youre a runner (pessimist) or driver (optimist). The race itself was described as Undulating. Never a good sign. So on sunday morning I woke up nice and early and it was raining. No surprises there. I grabbed a 20 pound note and headed out the door. I didnt bring anything with me because the race instructions indicated there wasnt any place to leave valuables and I envisioned a tent in the middle of a field and my phone getting soaked.
I hopped on the bus and headed into the center of the island. Got to newport and changed busses to head out to the coast. Even though it was early I was awake enough to notice that my bus fare from cowes to shanklin was more expensive than I anticipated and with the race fee owed when I got there, I might not have enough to get home. "No problem" I told myself, "Im sure someone is heading back this way in a car and I can hitch a ride." I arrived and it was now pouring rain. Lucky us the race head quarters was inside the local Boules club. Because it's england and they have local Boules clubs. So there was actually plenty of dry space to keep valuables. This is important later in the story. I registered and got my number and took a seat to look at the course map. As I sat down I noticed a tall, Meredith tall, girl come in. She was hauling a small suitcase on wheels and I could tell that she didnt have anyone with her. -races, by yourself, can feel very lonely. Everyone has their wife or kid to hold their warm up clothes or help them pin their number on straight. When youre by yourself you stick out like a sore
thumb. And I know something about sore thumbs. But that was before now.
Anyways. Tall girl, whose name was Laura! sat down next to me and we chit chatted about the race. She is a personal trainer to the stars! Or someone rich enough to have a private personal trainer that travels with them to Morocco and the like. And she was on her way north to see the family. We warmed up together and started together and then her long, personal trainer legs, took off.
The race was great. Undulating for sure but relaxed, beautiful, and I got to chat with lots of nice people from london and the lot. I was thought to be from South Africa and Australia, noone ever guesses American. And I finished under my goal time of 2 hours. Laura was at the finish and we said "Good race, nice to meet you, and goodbye." I then began my hunt for a ride home. Funny enough, though they came out to run 12 miles, most people drove from very short distances away and I couldnt seem to find anyone heading all the way back to Cowes. "No problem" I told myself. "Ill get the train to Ryde (thats a ticket to ryde, shes got a ticket to Ryde and she dont care, la la la la) and grab a taxi from there, I can pay them when we get home." So I hopped the train, got to Ryde, saw on the map that at most it was 8 miles home and started walking in order to hail a cab. Forgetting that this was NOT NYC, it was england, and people dont hail a cab, they go to a cab stand. 12 miles and a wrong turn later I turned up at home with sore toes and a very thirsty me! Great race, long walk, nice day.

A few days later I grabbed the morning ferry to Southampton and rented a car. Only noticing as I checked in that my American license had expired in may, I had renewed it like a good kid should, and only had the expired version with me. The lady was nice enough (or foreign and didnt feel like translating the situation) to add a year onto my existing license and let me get the car. Ready to go with my Tom Tom and cell phone I headed north to visit Craig, former Necker chef, instructor of fire poi and good friend from the islands. We toured Oxford, had a scavenger hunt for dark rum, and caught up in his local pub. We parted the next day and I was off to run a 5k in Windsor. I arrived nice and early, walked up to the tent and found out that this was in fact a triathalon and I must have red the directions wrong. bummed but not disc
ouraged I went for my own little run and pitched my tent
in the
big field where noone would notice me. After a good night sleep I woke up, headed into Windsor proper to see the castle, saw the 5k running signs from the night before and realized I was just a few miles away from a good 5k the day before. O well.

I drove west from there, choosing the "avoid main roads" option on Tom Tom. This lead me on some great adventures. Dear Tom Tom, I think you should know that not all roads are paved, wide enough for even the compact car I was driving, or passable by anyone but sheep.
Again I ran some really great races. Trail runs are all the rage in England. So is running very seriously. And not getting tshirts after races.
My second to last race was a 5 miler trail run. I showed up early and found out that this was the first year theyd run the race and it was going to be pretty small. We had almost 30 people run, but 20 of them were kids in the fun run ahead of time! The trail was marked with colored yarn and was pretty confusing to follow. So confusing that, though we were running together, most of us got lost and finished 5 minutes before the decided winners! We missed a lap and about a mile and a half! We all got ribbons anyways and had a great time.
I had found a great campground in close proximity to all the places I wanted to go with hot showers and well that was really all I cared about. Each night after running I'd head back, grab a shower and curl up in my tent to listen to the rain fall. Id fall asleep and dream about getting soaked but my 10 pound tent held it's own and I stayed dry as long as I didnt touch the edges! From my comfortable little camp in the middle of nowhere I headed into the big city of Bath.

Bath, so Jane Austen Iknow, was great. A big town with ancient ruins of Roman Baths and lots of English pubs. I spent the day wandering around the streets before heading just out of town to the horse races!! Id heard it was a very english thing to do and if Eliza D0olittle can do it, so can I. I didnt buy a hat but dressed up and even bought a bet! It was exciting to be in the stands with everyone cheering! Horse racing, like American football however, has a lot of down time and downtime plus downpour = bored laurel. I headed out of town early to head back to my campsite. I had to get up early to drive the 2 hours back towards London for my last race, another 1/2 marathon. Since all the races I'd participated in so far had been pretty small, local affairs I was ready for the same when I pulled into the race site and they directed me 2 miles away to park!! I parked ina field with lots of other cars and began the walk back to the site. This was NOT your local weekend run. Big start line banners and tents set up with over 2000 people running! I had met a woman a couple days before who was a former olympic marathoner. She was in her 50s now and still running. I saw her before the race and wished her luck on her goal time of 95 minutes. (I run it in 2 hours and am estatic!). there are some very serious runners in england. This race was 2 laps through a wooded area, paved trail. quite a bit easier than the last one, and no mud like the rest of the week! I was tired from the previous races and mile 10 started to take its toll. WHen I looked up and saw a woman in front of me wearing a 65+ sticker on her number tag i had a minor break down. I beat her, barely, in the last mile!!
All in all it was a great week. A great way to see England and fun to go camping in the rain!!